I’m sorry but whatever you are pushing here is not pro women. Until you can move from a place of seeing trans women as women then you’re just another transphobe looking at anything to state what has never been obvious. The sad tale of the woman in a locker room forced to dress with Lia Thomas, a trans woman, who has not had a vaginoplast…
I’m sorry but whatever you are pushing here is not pro women. Until you can move from a place of seeing trans women as women then you’re just another transphobe looking at anything to state what has never been obvious. The sad tale of the woman in a locker room forced to dress with Lia Thomas, a trans woman, who has not had a vaginoplasty, tells me just how ugly this push to save “real woman” has gotten. Environment, training, socioeconomics, heredity, talent, all play a large part in how women compete with each other. The statistic you left out in your percent of how many trans females are taking hormones or who have undergone surgery, are the numbers of trans people who’d love to be on hormones but can’t because they are either too young or they can’t afford it, or they are in a state with little to no gender affirming care. You also left out how many trans girls just want to play on the girls team. They aren’t athletic or bigger or faster than all the other girls, they just want to be part of a team or play with their girl friends. Funny how you leave this data out. No, instead you misgender and identify trans women as men, and state you are not transphobic. Until we can have real conversations about grief, and fear, and then look at the factual data regarding trans women and men in sports, I’m afraid your just one more person who listens to no one but her own affirming words about how hate isn’t hate if you say it isn’t.
Hi Alicia, I see we disagree on many things, but I want you to know I hear your anger and I'm sorry you feel like I'm being hateful.
I wonder if you'd be willing to answer a question or two.
When you say "trans women are women," do you mean literally? Like, a man (yes, that's "misgendering" to you but that's the point of my story: we need to use accurate, sex-based language, so I'm going to say men here) - anyway, do you believe that a man can literally become a woman? Just through belief or feeling or identity? Once he declares himself to be a woman, then he is a woman? Because of gender dysphoria or "born in the wrong body" or "inner knowing," which sometimes begins as young as infancy, according to some trans documents I've read.
If so, can that person then change back to a man? Indefinitely, back and forth like that, with maybe some nonbinary phases too? (Which is what some male athletes are doing in marathons - entering a variety of categories over time.)
And if so, does that (one transition or more than one) seem magical or mystical to you - that men can just turn themselves into women (with or without surgery & hormones)?
Or are you speaking more metaphorically: That "transwomen" consider themselves to be women, and thus should be accorded all of the rights of women - including access to locker rooms and athletic teams?
If so, does that same principle apply to race or age, if we consider ourselves to be older or younger or a different race? I ask because I've read about at least two men who have "identified as girls" and entered girls' competitions and locker rooms. One was 52.
And there was the famous case of Rachel Dolezal who identifies as Black. Pretty much no one accepted that from her, once it was exposed that she was zero percent Black.
I'm afraid this sounds snarky, and that's not my intent. It's hard to keep my own feelings out of it; as you can see, I believe girls and women have a right to compete and change their clothes in all-female spaces.
But I'm sincerely interested in what you and others mean when you say "trans women are women." Literal or metaphoric? Thanks for any response you care to share.
Yes, exactly. And if a particular woman or man does not produce ova or sperm due to surgery or menopause or fluke of nature or whatever, their bodies are still designed for that reproductive function, with wider hips and more fat on women, for example. Thanks, Donna.
Yes, and the intersex (now called Disorders or Differences of Sexual Development) conditions are used to muddy the trans-athlete waters. It's a distraction from the problem: male athletes posing as females, with no consideration for how their participation affects actual females.
Except that's not always true. Some do opt out. I know some trans adults who opt out, acknowledging their male performance advantage; you just don't hear of them as often. Caitlyn Jenner is one; she does not compete against women in golf for that reason.
I’m sorry but whatever you are pushing here is not pro women. Until you can move from a place of seeing trans women as women then you’re just another transphobe looking at anything to state what has never been obvious. The sad tale of the woman in a locker room forced to dress with Lia Thomas, a trans woman, who has not had a vaginoplasty, tells me just how ugly this push to save “real woman” has gotten. Environment, training, socioeconomics, heredity, talent, all play a large part in how women compete with each other. The statistic you left out in your percent of how many trans females are taking hormones or who have undergone surgery, are the numbers of trans people who’d love to be on hormones but can’t because they are either too young or they can’t afford it, or they are in a state with little to no gender affirming care. You also left out how many trans girls just want to play on the girls team. They aren’t athletic or bigger or faster than all the other girls, they just want to be part of a team or play with their girl friends. Funny how you leave this data out. No, instead you misgender and identify trans women as men, and state you are not transphobic. Until we can have real conversations about grief, and fear, and then look at the factual data regarding trans women and men in sports, I’m afraid your just one more person who listens to no one but her own affirming words about how hate isn’t hate if you say it isn’t.
Hi Alicia, I see we disagree on many things, but I want you to know I hear your anger and I'm sorry you feel like I'm being hateful.
I wonder if you'd be willing to answer a question or two.
When you say "trans women are women," do you mean literally? Like, a man (yes, that's "misgendering" to you but that's the point of my story: we need to use accurate, sex-based language, so I'm going to say men here) - anyway, do you believe that a man can literally become a woman? Just through belief or feeling or identity? Once he declares himself to be a woman, then he is a woman? Because of gender dysphoria or "born in the wrong body" or "inner knowing," which sometimes begins as young as infancy, according to some trans documents I've read.
If so, can that person then change back to a man? Indefinitely, back and forth like that, with maybe some nonbinary phases too? (Which is what some male athletes are doing in marathons - entering a variety of categories over time.)
And if so, does that (one transition or more than one) seem magical or mystical to you - that men can just turn themselves into women (with or without surgery & hormones)?
Or are you speaking more metaphorically: That "transwomen" consider themselves to be women, and thus should be accorded all of the rights of women - including access to locker rooms and athletic teams?
If so, does that same principle apply to race or age, if we consider ourselves to be older or younger or a different race? I ask because I've read about at least two men who have "identified as girls" and entered girls' competitions and locker rooms. One was 52.
And there was the famous case of Rachel Dolezal who identifies as Black. Pretty much no one accepted that from her, once it was exposed that she was zero percent Black.
I'm afraid this sounds snarky, and that's not my intent. It's hard to keep my own feelings out of it; as you can see, I believe girls and women have a right to compete and change their clothes in all-female spaces.
But I'm sincerely interested in what you and others mean when you say "trans women are women." Literal or metaphoric? Thanks for any response you care to share.
Yes, exactly. And if a particular woman or man does not produce ova or sperm due to surgery or menopause or fluke of nature or whatever, their bodies are still designed for that reproductive function, with wider hips and more fat on women, for example. Thanks, Donna.
And XX or XY chromosomes are in every cell in our body.
Yes, and the intersex (now called Disorders or Differences of Sexual Development) conditions are used to muddy the trans-athlete waters. It's a distraction from the problem: male athletes posing as females, with no consideration for how their participation affects actual females.
Except that's not always true. Some do opt out. I know some trans adults who opt out, acknowledging their male performance advantage; you just don't hear of them as often. Caitlyn Jenner is one; she does not compete against women in golf for that reason.