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Oct 25Liked by Mariah Burton Nelson

Just yesterday a coworker that normally has no interest in sports and I don't think ever golfed was telling me about a trans golfer that is winning in women's golf. Unfortonatly the stereo type is that men that ordinarily don't care about women's sports are the ones complaining about this. It's not fair but I think women are going to have to be the loudest on this.

I only expect it to become bigger as prize money and pro salaries go up for women's sports and certian less democratic countries chase more medals for national glory.

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Yes, that golfer is probably Hailey Davidson, who this week failed to qualify for the LPGA tour but will play on another smaller women's tour. 275 female golfers signed a letter of protest and the LPGA is said to be reconsidering whether this is really such a great idea. I welcome male and female voices of protest, information, sanity. Women and girls are getting louder and louder; seems to be coming to a head - but countless world organizations are involved in decision-making, which at the moment must happen on an organization-by-organization basis. A federal law here in the States would also do it.

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Oct 26Liked by Mariah Burton Nelson

A federal law on it would bemuch better. You can imagine smaller sports organizations don't have the money and time to get tied up in court over these things. A similar thing happened in women's MX a few years ago and people were worried about what would happen but it turns out she finished af enough down the order that it didn't matter.

I think it's an unfortonate distraction in th epolitical world that gives an uperhand to the MAGA gang while the left has to tip toe around these issues much more.

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I agree. Democrats need to come to their senses and remember their longstanding support for women's equal rights. Even if a male athlete finishes far from the podium in a female event, he's still taking up space where he does not belong.

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“But it doesn’t happen often” is even more true of white police gunning down unarmed Black men. Or anyone, for that matter.

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That picture just says it all. How can anyone see the picture and still defend men competing in the women's sports?

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Oct 21Liked by Mariah Burton Nelson

There is also https://www.shewon.org but that seems less complete.

My complaint with https://www.hecheated.org is that the numbers you cite are not easy to find there.

On the front page, the only obvious thing to do is to click on the big central "Results" button. Then the reader is asked to "Select a sport".

Come on! Show the big numbers up front, without having to click on anything! I had found this site some time ago, but gave up when I had to "select a sport".

Sorry to rant at someone doing good work, but these results need to be formatted in a way which gives the key info without so much effort on the reader's part.

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Also you can select “all sports.” Just in case you didn’t notice that.

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Yes - She Won is all self-reported by the women, focusing on them, which is good too but different.

“Athena” is open to suggestions. The site is new. Send feedback to her if you want: Info@HeCheated.org.

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Oct 21·edited Oct 21Liked by Mariah Burton Nelson

Valentina Petrillo is a most unconvincing-looking woman. What a creep.

If he wants to call himself a woman, he can go ahead, but he should keep out of women’s sports.

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Yes, I agree, but I feel a need to note that this is not about how successfully men disguise themselves as women. Nor how women actually look, or should look. We can look any way we want, as can men. We just need men to admit that they're men and stay in their own (men's category) lane.

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Oct 21Liked by Mariah Burton Nelson

Brava, Athena, whoever you are! “He Cheated” is an invaluable resource. And thanks so much to you, Mariah, for compiling so much important information in this post. I am saving this for reference and use when confronted with the claim “but there are only a few.” (Of course, as we know, a few is still too many. The women’s category is for women.)

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Ditto re brava to Athena & one is too many. Glad this seems useful. Thanks!

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