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Amanda Kovattana's avatar

When we first stood outside of a volleyball game at a nearby high school to protest the male on the girls' team, we had a conversation with a parent from that team who told us that the boy believed he was a girl. That's when we realized that his entire community was going along with the lie and we were possibly the first adults to tell these boys the truth. That became part of the reason we protested. To be the one to tell these athletes the truth that no he is not a girl.

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Kate Gilbert's avatar

When I ask myself why the word male is painful to males who 'identify' as women, the first answer that comes into my head is that it hurts because they know it is true. It hurts because it forces them to confront their self-deception. It hurts because it shows that not everyone is prepared to enter into their self-deception and reinforce it. It's a human thing. When we are forced to face how foolish or hubristic we are, it hurts. Always.

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