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Keith Harbaugh's avatar

"It’s killing me that they’re still fine with other boys and men in women’s locker rooms.”

Who are "they"?

No doubt many are responsible for this, but one shouldn't just blame men.

Take a look at the photos of the members of the Arlington County School Board.

They are the ones letting males into spaces that should be reserved for real, biological, women.

Mariah Burton Nelson's avatar

The “they” referred to all the decision-makers, from state legislators to county boards to school boards to school officials who pretend that boys can magically become girls if they say they are, and that prioritize boys’ desires over girls rights in law and policy and practice, even when 13 girls show up to beg for help because two boys are watching them change clothes. And yes, those decision-makers include women. One could say the problem is the “overvalued belief,” as @Mia Hughes intriguingly put it this fall at the @Genspect conference, and I agree that’s part of it, but since gender ideology affects men and women very differently, with most of the harms done to women and girls, and almost all the boundary violations perpetrated by men and boys, I think underlying that overvalued belief is a deeper one: Male Entitlement Syndrome, as I put it in the article.

Joanna Vital Health's avatar

Thanks, Mariah, especially for reporting on what happened to Kallie Keeler, which I have been also following. Restacked with a note.

I watched that "wrestling match" with Kallie a few times, and noted how sneaky her biological male adversary (pretending to be a woman) was with his left hand. As you noted, she threw the match because of the assault.

Mariah Burton Nelson's avatar

Yes. So appalling- yet ignored by most media. Hope he is convicted of rape.

Joanna Vital Health's avatar

Unlikely, I think, that he will be convicted of rape. I hope that she has someone trustworthy to speak with about what happened to her. There’s punishment for the assailant, which is one thing and IS important, but then there’s the healing for the victimized.

Mariah Burton Nelson's avatar

Yes - and I feel victimized too, on behalf of all of us who basically witnessed a public, preventable rape. Girls are hearing that they don't matter. That they have no legit boundaries. Allowing confused boys into girls' sports and locker rooms is a travesty. I feel really enraged by it.

Mike Walker's avatar

Problem is in years to come, Nina, if these nutters have their way, we’ll be saying ‘ah women, I have heard of them”.

nina's avatar

when I get called a man hater - often by women - I reply "I have heard of men."

Susan Scheid's avatar

Brilliant. Thank you.

EyesOpen's avatar

Thank you for illuminating "Male Entitlement Syndrome," a progressive, environmental pathology characterized by the belief that no door marked WOMEN may be closed to men.

Lisa Simeone's avatar

Go, Mariah! Great round-up. Touché, indeed!

Have restacked several times.

(and especially love Footnote #3)

Mariah Burton Nelson's avatar

You're the best. Thank you, Lisa. And great job with the DIAG X space about gender-indoctrination education this week, beginning in pre-school. Yikes.

Donna Lopiano's avatar

Touche' mon ami

Mariah Burton Nelson's avatar

:-) Thanks, Donna!